sorry seems to be the hardest word......


It’s sad,so sad
It’s a sad, sad situation
And it’s getting more and more absurd
It’s sad, so sad
Why can’t we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word..

The above lines perfectly describe what i am going to express now.

In our daily life,people often get into occassional misunderstanding and hurt feelings.and i am no different!!Sometimes we are the one who hurt another person.... sometimes we are the one who has been hurt.

Lately,i realized that it is not difficult for one to create such situations and misunderstandings..but what almost seems impossible for people is to accept their fault and find it even much more difficult to say-"I'M SORRY".

Why does one finds it so difficult to say "Sorry".what stops one??????

To be sorry,first one has to realize his/her fault.Has to ask himself "Is it my mistake?".."Am i wrong?"...But today's generation...(and this article emphasizes on today's generation because i seldom come across elder's under such situations)...finds this hard to do.and its simply because they feel they can never be wrong.

"Blame"

The word "blame" is the culprit that comes our way.Its the easiest escape route one finds from accepting one's mistakes and the feeling of guilt.Whenever we loose,we simply give some justification.I have hardly heard anyone saying "I lost it because of my own mistake".And rather than it being a smart answer for others,it actually becomes a comforting answer for our inner soul which curses us.

Accepting your fault and trying to ameliorate is an art.Its not easy at all!!And once a person learns this art,he will find himself at the top!!

A painter cannot make a marvellous painting until he knows what shades are best for it and whether he can create those shades or not...If he cannot,then either he can continue painting with the shades he has with himself or he can simply go and find a way to create the desired shade.

Our approach towards our faults is also like this painter.Either we can give ourselves an excuse and continue with the qualities we have or we can analyze and find ways out to make ourselves a better person.In this case,the ball is always on our court.

So next time when u commit a mistake,hurt someone's feelings or loose a battle of your life because of your own fault,don't hesitate to accept it and to say "SORRY".

enjoy!!!
chetna